College Chick Code

We live in a world of codes; the penal code, area codes and morse code. But obviously, the most important code that we all know is the BRO CODE. Bros are described on urban dictionary as being “obnoxious partying males who are often seen at college parties. When they aren’t making an ass of themselves they usually just stand around holding a red plastic cup waiting for something exciting to happen so they can scream something that demonstrates how much they enjoy partying." 

But for me, bros originated from Barney Stinson on one of my favourite shows ever…How I Met your Mother. Since then, it was become a huge phenomenon, and has spawned something known as bro tips which are can be hilarious, sometimes sexist but usually pretty insightful.

But you never really here about girl code. Especially college girl code. My list is more rules then tips or statements,

1.      Chicks  shall not allow girl to drunk call or drunk text. It’s  just super super embarrassing, and EVERYONE regrets them the next morning 

2.       Chicks shall not judge other girl on the appearance/personality of past hook-ups. Everyone has those nights where you have massive beer goggles and may not make the best decision boy wise. However, they probably already know that the guy they woke up next too looked like a troll, we really don’t need to rub it in.

3.       Chicks shall not post pictures on facebook where they look great and friends look awful. That is just too cruel.

4.       Chicks shall let other girls borrow clothes. This is definitely required if you are of similar size as your friends. If you are going out often, you don’t want to be seen in the same clothes a lot, it’s always great to switch it up.

5.       Chicks shall offer to pay for dry cleaning if something is spilled on borrowed clothes. This should be obvious, and if its not, you’re probably a terrible person.

6.       Chicks not date or flirt with ex-boyfriend. This is complicated, because I know a lot of people who have dated each other’s exes. I think it depends on how serious the relationship is and in my mind, high school relationships do not count, unless they lasted past graduation.

7.       Chicks shall tell the truth about how they feel about a friend’s significant other. I think this is really important because relationships need trust. If you like the significant other, then tell them if they ask (and they always ask) and if you don’t, you should tell them too. I think it’s always helpful to hear from a friend what they think, especially a close friend because they tend to know you very very well. People are often blinded by love, and they might not notice little things that their partner does that may not be in their best interest. I’m not saying bash the person mercilessly, I’m just saying express your feelings if asked, and don’t bring up again.

8.       Chicks shall help beautify friends when going out. Help do hair, makeup, picking out outfits. Sad to say, but the appearance of one member usually reflects on the group. Ugh I really feel awful for saying this.

9.       Chicks shall provide pointers, help and support. When it comes to female friendships, there are many layers, because their might be jealousy, some sort of animosity or some form of miscommunication. Frenemies come to mind. That said, chicks have some amazing tips that they can share with a fellow girl, be it study tips, workout tips, cooking tips, book recommendations (this is very important for me), money saving tips and the list goes on. Spread the word, it’s no good to keep these things to yourself.

10.   Chicks shall go ahead with crazy plans when friends are going through tough times. I mentioned above that chick friendships can be complicated, but they can be very very rewarding and can be the most important relationships you form. When friends are going through hard time, be it exam stress, boy trouble, family issues, work problems and they want to de stress, try and go along with their crazy ideas. They would gladly do the same for you.

11.   Chicks shall support their fellow chicks in future career or academic goals. As a college student, I think this is one of the most important because most of us are completely lost, so we use our friends as sounding boards to bounce off our ideas and fears for our future. It’s hard feeling like you don’t know where you’re going to end up, but having someone to talk to, who is probably going through the same thing.